Communicating clearly is hard work. You and the other parent may have longstanding conflicts that make it difficult to discuss any issue. You might misunderstand each other. Do your best to set aside those past differences and relationship issues.

• Focus on common goals.
  
  
• Work together to resolve problems involving your child.
  
  
• Once you and the other parent agree on a plan, write it down so you are sure that you both understand.
  
  
• Inform each other about important issues affecting your child such as those involving school, health problems, medication, and discipline.
  
  
• Call the other parent if you are going to be late or your schedule changes.
  
  
• To resolve disagreements, seek help from a mutually trusted person, such as a counselor or a shared friend.